Friv·o·lous [friv-uh-luhs] Adjective --Self-indulgently carefree; unconcerned about or lacking any serious purpose.
1/25/12
Silent
When some people have problems, they charge at them head on. Others silently allow problems to come upon them so that they will be forced into acting on them at last minute. I typically fall under the first category, but when it comes to confrontation, even amongst friends, I have had a bad track record with the latter. Why is it so hard to tell someone you disagree? Why is it so difficult to let someone know his/her actions are hurting you? Fear. Is the driving force behind most human actions. Fear and desire. I think in this case it must be a fear, a fear of pushing something too far because of my desires. I don't want to come across as selfish or callous. I strive towards being as helpful as possible. Yet when ones need for a little privacy, a little respect, and some cooperation reach the point mine has, something must be done. But what? Well, hopefully you will stay and support me through this journey of learning about confrontation and one's own needs.
Sadly enough, the driving factor behind this journey has become two of my 4 roommates, whom I feel I can no longer deal with. Support me as this story unfolds!
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